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  • Growth Requires Empty Hands 

    “Growth can’t happen if your hands are full of yesterday.”

    After my 50th birthday a few years back, I received a word that stirred something deep in me: 

    “Behold, I am doing a new thing…” – Isaiah 43:18-19

    At first, I was nervous. Unsure. But also deeply curious. That word marked the beginning of a journey, one that has been anything but ordinary.

    Since then, I have stepped out of my comfort zone and into a season of discovery. I have met parts of myself I didn’t even know existed. It’s been a journey of growth, grace, and unexpected adventure.

    And just this week, I heard that same word again.

    A divine reminder: new beginnings require open hands.

    In leadership, in parenting, in purpose… we can’t move forward while holding on tight to what’s behind.

    Guilt. Old patterns. Past disappointments. Even past successes.

    Letting go doesn’t mean forgetting. It means making space.

    • Space for growth.
    • Space for healing.
    • Space for the “new thing” God is doing.

     So here’s my encouragement to you this week:

    • Be alert.
    • Be present.
    • Be willing to release.

    Because the miracle might not look like what you expected.

    But it’s coming.
    And it’s good.

    What are you releasing to grow this season?

    Let’s reflect together as we start this amazing new week.

     

  • Legacy Is Built Today

    As we start this new week, let me ask you a question that I asked myself over the weekend…

    What do you want to be remembered for?

    This weekend marked what would have been my husband’s 54th birthday. As I reflected on his life and the journey we walked with our young royals – who at the time of his passing were vulnerable teenagers, now thriving young adults – I was reminded of this truth:

    “Legacy isn’t just what we leave behind – it’s what we build into others while we are still here.”

    Legacy is not just about wealth or titles. It’s about impact.
    💡 It’s the encouragement we give.
    💡 The values we model.
    💡 The stories we share.
    💡 The love we plant in the hearts of others

    Whether you are a parent, mentor, leader, or creative – your daily choices shape the next generation.

    So today, I invite you to pause and ask:
    What kind of legacy am I building?

    🔑 Let’s live with the future in mind.
    🔑 Let’s lead with purpose.
    🔑 Let’s leave something that lasts.

     What legacy are you working on?

    I would love to hear your thoughts.

  • Strength in the storm

    Sometimes the miracle isn’t that the storm ends – but the fact that you are still standing in the storm.

    Before we dive in, take a moment…

    How are you doing today – really?

    In the past few months, I’ve spoken with people who are walking through situations that feel like crashing waves: grief, burnout, major transitions, or simply the quiet overwhelm of doing life every day.

    And maybe that’s you, too.

    So, pause.

    Take a breath.

    Let yourself feel what you’re feeling.

    Here is the truth I have had to hold onto in my own storms:

    God is faithful – even when the miracle doesn’t look the way we hoped.

    Sometimes it’s not the winds stopping. It’s the way God strengthens you to keep moving anyway.

    “For the Lord is good; His love lasts forever, and His faithfulness continues through all generations.” – Psalm 100:5

    That verse became my anchor. It reminded me that God doesn’t walk away when things get hard. He sees you. He stays close. And He shows up –though not always how we expect.

    So if you’re facing something heavy, know this:

    • You’re not alone.
    • God’s love hasn’t wavered.
    • You are held.

    Leave a comment or drop me a message: What are you trusting God for this week?

    Let’s carry each other through with hope, honesty, and faith.

    And if this spoke to you, pass it on. Someone else might be riding out a storm – and your words could help them hold on.

  • 🌟 Why I pay myself first – with wisdom, not just wealth 🌟

    “Making use of the mornings is like paying yourself first – in wisdom, productivity and clarity.”

    This quote has anchored my thoughts this week as I reflect on the power of intentional mornings. I am often described as a morning person, but for me, it’s more than habit – it’s a personal investment strategy.

    I recently read Miracle Morning Millionaires, by Hal Elrod and David Osborn, a recommendation from my wealth and financial coach, Sola Adesakin CPA, FCA, FCCA, MBA, CFEI and it affirmed what I have practiced for years: mornings aren’t just a launchpad for success, they are a sacred space to sow into my life.

    ✨ My morning wealth ritual

    Before emails, meetings, or obligations knock on my door, I open the door to myself – spiritually, mentally, and physically. My morning routine isn’t just a checklist; it’s a covenant of alignment:

    🙏 I pray – centering my spirit and inviting divine guidance for the day.

    📓 I journal – releasing thoughts and reflecting on gratitude .

    📖 I study the Bible – drawing wisdom and truth into my daily decisions.

    📚 I read for at least an hour – feeding my mind with new insights and perspectives.

    💬 I declare affirmations – reinforcing identity, intention, and hope.

    🎯 I review my goals and targets – keeping them alive and visible, refusing to let them become background noise.

    🧘🏽‍♀️ I exercise – honouring my body as a vessel of strength.

    🔊 I “push play” – listening to faith-building or motivational messages that sharpen my belief and fuel momentum.

    Each morning is a deposit into my spiritual account. The return? Clarity, courage, creativity – and compound interest in consistency.

    🧠 Relatable moments…

    This practice helped me navigate seasons of grief with grace, pivot through financial surprises with calm, and lead with purpose through life’s complexities. Whether it’s recording a Monday Motivation video, launching accountability coaching services, or just making a tough budget decision, that morning investment gives me what money can’t: peace before performance.

    If you are in leadership, building your brand, or simply seeking balance – mornings can be your private boardroom, gym, sanctuary and vision studio.

    📣 Your turn: How will you invest in your morning?

    I invite you to create your own “morning wealth ritual.” Start small: one prayer, one page, one push of play.

    Prioritise pouring into yourself before the world makes a withdrawal. Your future self will thank you – and so will your purpose.

    If this resonated with you, share your own morning habits or tag someone who inspires you to start strong each day. Let’s build a movement of early risers investing in legacy.