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Essentials

  • To Live Your Dream: Focus on What You CAN Do

    We all have dreams. Some are loud and ambitious, others quiet and sacred. I most certainly have mine ☺️, both big and small.

    But one thing is true for all of them: they won’t come to life by accident.
    I have learnt – through ministry, mentorship, and even the occasional tech hiccup – that living your dream requires more than vision boards and prayer journals. It demands ownership. It demands responsibility.

    🎯 The shift that changed everything for me

    Years ago, I had a dream to create a resource that would encourage people daily with scripture and motivation. I saw it clearly. I even declared it. But for a while, I waited, hoping the right collaborator, the right timing, or the right “sign” would show up.

    Spoiler alert: they didn’t. Instead, what showed up was a quiet nudge from God: “What’s in your hand?”

    So I took ownership. I learned new tools. I designed the pages. I wrote the content. I asked for help when I needed it. And today, 365 Scriptural Motivations is not just a dream – it’s a reality that is blessing others. I have since published a few other books as well to be a blessing to my generation.

    🚫 Stop waiting for luck, start working with purpose.

    It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking success depends on someone else’s approval, a lucky break, or divine intervention that doesn’t require our effort.

    But scripture reminds us: 📖 “Faith without works is dead.” — James 2:26

    God partners with our movement. He honours our steps. And when we focus on what we can do – what’s in our control, we begin to see doors open that we didn’t even know existed.

    ✅ What You CAN Do Today

    🖋️ Write the vision down (even if it’s messy).
    🗣️ Speak life over it daily.
    🚶 Take one small action – send the email, sketch the idea, record the voice note.
    🪴 Sow a seed: invest time, energy, or resources toward it.
    💡 Surround yourself with accountability and encouragement.

    💬 My challenge to you today…

    What dream have you been waiting on?
    What would shift if you stopped waiting for fate and started walking in faith?

    Take responsibility… Take ownership… Stay accountable…

    Have a winning week ahead 🏆

  • From Fear to Focus – 5 mindset shifts to elevate your week

    In the fast-paced constant motion of work and life – meetings, deadlines and responsibilities, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. Whether you are leading a team, building a dream, or navigating change, clarity and courage are essential. This week, I have been reflecting on five mindset shifts that help us move from hesitation to bold action – and stay aligned with our purpose.

    1. Live Beyond Fear

    Fear may knock, but faith must answer. In leadership and in life, fear often shows up as hesitation, self-doubt, or overthinking. But fear doesn’t have to lead. When we choose courage, even in uncertainty, we unlock new possibilities. You were built to rise, not retreat.

    Choose courage today. Choose to live beyond fear.

    2. Do It Afraid

    Waiting to feel ready or brave before you act? You might wait forever. Growth often begins with discomfort.

    Growth happens outside the comfort zone.

    The key is to move forward even when fear is present.

    Your dreams are worth the risk. Pay the price… take the step.

    3. Get Clear on What You Want

    One reason people don’t get what they want? They haven’t defined it. Clarity is the first step to progress. Take time to reflect: What do you truly want? And is it aligned with your values and long-term vision?

    4. Make Your Vision Plain

    A vague goal or dream won’t carry you far – but a clear one can change everything. Whether it’s a career milestone, a personal breakthrough, or a creative pursuit – write it down. Be specific. Let clarity fuel your momentum.

    5. Keep Your Vision in View

    It’s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day and lose sight of the big picture. But your goals still matter. Keep your vision visible. Revisit it often. Your purpose is too important to be buried under busyness.

    This week, let clarity guide your decisions. Let courage shape your actions. And let your vision stay front and center. You don’t need perfect conditions to move forward – you just need a clear direction and the willingness to begin.

    Happy New Week

  • The Best Investment Strategy I Know: Me

    Let’s talk ROI – but not in stocks, crypto, or property. I am talking Return on Intention.

    Every day, I choose to invest in the one asset I will carry for life: me. Not in a selfish way, but in a faith-fuelled, purpose-powered way.

    My daily routine is more than habit – it’s a spiritual strategy:

    • I read to grow. Whether it’s scripture or motivation, I fuel my mind with truth.
    •  I listen to messages that build faith and stir purpose.
    •  I move—not just for fitness, but as a thank-you to God for this body and breath.
    •  I journal my gratitude—because thankfulness is fertilizer for joy.
    •  I pray, I praise, and I speak life. I declare God’s promises over my day and my destiny.

    This is Investing in Me™. Not a checklist, but a lifestyle of stewardship.

    Just like the servants in Matthew 25 who were given talents, I don’t want to bury mine – I want to multiply them and return with impact.

    Because when I show up full – spiritually fed, emotionally balanced, physically energised – I serve better, love stronger, and live louder.

    So here’s my encouragement to you:

    Before you chase every to-do, every deadline, every obligation… pause.

    • Invest in yourself.
    • Plant joy.
    • Water growth.
    • Shine light.

    The harvest will bless not just you – but everyone connected to you.

    And that, my friend, is a legacy worth building.

  • Growth Requires Empty Hands 

    “Growth can’t happen if your hands are full of yesterday.”

    After my 50th birthday a few years back, I received a word that stirred something deep in me: 

    “Behold, I am doing a new thing…” – Isaiah 43:18-19

    At first, I was nervous. Unsure. But also deeply curious. That word marked the beginning of a journey, one that has been anything but ordinary.

    Since then, I have stepped out of my comfort zone and into a season of discovery. I have met parts of myself I didn’t even know existed. It’s been a journey of growth, grace, and unexpected adventure.

    And just this week, I heard that same word again.

    A divine reminder: new beginnings require open hands.

    In leadership, in parenting, in purpose… we can’t move forward while holding on tight to what’s behind.

    Guilt. Old patterns. Past disappointments. Even past successes.

    Letting go doesn’t mean forgetting. It means making space.

    • Space for growth.
    • Space for healing.
    • Space for the “new thing” God is doing.

     So here’s my encouragement to you this week:

    • Be alert.
    • Be present.
    • Be willing to release.

    Because the miracle might not look like what you expected.

    But it’s coming.
    And it’s good.

    What are you releasing to grow this season?

    Let’s reflect together as we start this amazing new week.

     

  • Legacy Is Built Today

    As we start this new week, let me ask you a question that I asked myself over the weekend…

    What do you want to be remembered for?

    This weekend marked what would have been my husband’s 54th birthday. As I reflected on his life and the journey we walked with our young royals – who at the time of his passing were vulnerable teenagers, now thriving young adults – I was reminded of this truth:

    “Legacy isn’t just what we leave behind – it’s what we build into others while we are still here.”

    Legacy is not just about wealth or titles. It’s about impact.
    💡 It’s the encouragement we give.
    💡 The values we model.
    💡 The stories we share.
    💡 The love we plant in the hearts of others

    Whether you are a parent, mentor, leader, or creative – your daily choices shape the next generation.

    So today, I invite you to pause and ask:
    What kind of legacy am I building?

    🔑 Let’s live with the future in mind.
    🔑 Let’s lead with purpose.
    🔑 Let’s leave something that lasts.

     What legacy are you working on?

    I would love to hear your thoughts.

  • Strength in the storm

    Sometimes the miracle isn’t that the storm ends – but the fact that you are still standing in the storm.

    Before we dive in, take a moment…

    How are you doing today – really?

    In the past few months, I’ve spoken with people who are walking through situations that feel like crashing waves: grief, burnout, major transitions, or simply the quiet overwhelm of doing life every day.

    And maybe that’s you, too.

    So, pause.

    Take a breath.

    Let yourself feel what you’re feeling.

    Here is the truth I have had to hold onto in my own storms:

    God is faithful – even when the miracle doesn’t look the way we hoped.

    Sometimes it’s not the winds stopping. It’s the way God strengthens you to keep moving anyway.

    “For the Lord is good; His love lasts forever, and His faithfulness continues through all generations.” – Psalm 100:5

    That verse became my anchor. It reminded me that God doesn’t walk away when things get hard. He sees you. He stays close. And He shows up –though not always how we expect.

    So if you’re facing something heavy, know this:

    • You’re not alone.
    • God’s love hasn’t wavered.
    • You are held.

    Leave a comment or drop me a message: What are you trusting God for this week?

    Let’s carry each other through with hope, honesty, and faith.

    And if this spoke to you, pass it on. Someone else might be riding out a storm – and your words could help them hold on.

  • 🌟 Why I pay myself first – with wisdom, not just wealth 🌟

    “Making use of the mornings is like paying yourself first – in wisdom, productivity and clarity.”

    This quote has anchored my thoughts this week as I reflect on the power of intentional mornings. I am often described as a morning person, but for me, it’s more than habit – it’s a personal investment strategy.

    I recently read Miracle Morning Millionaires, by Hal Elrod and David Osborn, a recommendation from my wealth and financial coach, Sola Adesakin CPA, FCA, FCCA, MBA, CFEI and it affirmed what I have practiced for years: mornings aren’t just a launchpad for success, they are a sacred space to sow into my life.

    ✨ My morning wealth ritual

    Before emails, meetings, or obligations knock on my door, I open the door to myself – spiritually, mentally, and physically. My morning routine isn’t just a checklist; it’s a covenant of alignment:

    🙏 I pray – centering my spirit and inviting divine guidance for the day.

    📓 I journal – releasing thoughts and reflecting on gratitude .

    📖 I study the Bible – drawing wisdom and truth into my daily decisions.

    📚 I read for at least an hour – feeding my mind with new insights and perspectives.

    💬 I declare affirmations – reinforcing identity, intention, and hope.

    🎯 I review my goals and targets – keeping them alive and visible, refusing to let them become background noise.

    🧘🏽‍♀️ I exercise – honouring my body as a vessel of strength.

    🔊 I “push play” – listening to faith-building or motivational messages that sharpen my belief and fuel momentum.

    Each morning is a deposit into my spiritual account. The return? Clarity, courage, creativity – and compound interest in consistency.

    🧠 Relatable moments…

    This practice helped me navigate seasons of grief with grace, pivot through financial surprises with calm, and lead with purpose through life’s complexities. Whether it’s recording a Monday Motivation video, launching accountability coaching services, or just making a tough budget decision, that morning investment gives me what money can’t: peace before performance.

    If you are in leadership, building your brand, or simply seeking balance – mornings can be your private boardroom, gym, sanctuary and vision studio.

    📣 Your turn: How will you invest in your morning?

    I invite you to create your own “morning wealth ritual.” Start small: one prayer, one page, one push of play.

    Prioritise pouring into yourself before the world makes a withdrawal. Your future self will thank you – and so will your purpose.

    If this resonated with you, share your own morning habits or tag someone who inspires you to start strong each day. Let’s build a movement of early risers investing in legacy.

  • You Can’t Achieve Success Without Consistency

    We live in a world that glorifies quick wins and overnight success. But the truth? Real, lasting success isn’t built on flashes of brilliance – it’s built on what you do when no one’s watching. It’s in the early mornings when you choose prayer over pressure, when you write the vision down again even after the first draft didn’t gain traction, when you keep posting encouragement even when engagement is low. That’s where success begins – quietly, faithfully, consistently.

    I have learned this first-hand. Whether I’m showing up as a mentor, creating content that lifts others, or preparing a word in season for my community, the power is not in perfection – it’s in persistence. Every quote written, every video recorded, every prayer whispered over a project… it adds up. That’s consistency.

    And here’s the beautiful thing: consistency isn’t glamorous, but it is transformational. It’s the bridge between calling and fulfillment, between a vision and its manifestation. You don’t need to be perfect – you just need to be present, again and again.

    So, if you’re feeling weary in well-doing, I want to encourage you: keep going. The seeds you’re sowing now in faithfulness will bloom in due season. Success is already unfolding because you’ve chosen to keep showing up.

  • The Power of Choice in Hard Times

    Life is full of challenges. Some are small, others feel huge. But every challenge comes with a choice: Will you let it define you, break you, or push you forward?

    It’s easy to feel stuck when things get tough. Problems can make us doubt ourselves and feel powerless. But remember – challenges don’t decide who you are. Your response does.

    Choose to Be Strong

    Being strong doesn’t mean ignoring pain. It means deciding to keep going, even when things are hard. When life tests you, remind yourself: You are tougher than this moment. Strength grows when we refuse to give up.

    Choose to Learn

    Hard times can teach us important lessons. They help us grow, rethink our approach, and find new ways to succeed. Every struggle is an opportunity to gain wisdom and improve.

    Choose to Have Purpose

    Challenges can lead us to something greater. They shape our story, push us to help others, and show us what truly matters. When we see struggles as stepping stones, they stop feeling like roadblocks.

    So today, whatever you’re facing, ask yourself: Will this moment define me, break me, or push me forward?

    Choose to be strong. Choose to learn. Choose to have purpose.

    You are capable of more than you know. Keep going – your victory is coming.

  • The Power of Persistence: My Three-Year Journey to Oxford University

    Good morning and welcome to June 2025!

    For over three years, I held onto a vision – completing the Oxford University Women’s Leadership Program. It wasn’t just a goal; it was a deep-seated desire for growth, development, and leadership excellence.

    However, timing and priorities matter. Organisational KPIs and business needs must align with development opportunities, and in the first two years, this particular program wasn’t the right fit.

    But personal growth is not dependent on a single path. Instead of waiting, I took action.

    📅 2023: I proposed the Oxford program, but it didn’t align with company priorities at the time. I sought alternatives, completing a leadership course on Udemy to keep my skills sharp.

    📅 2024: The vision stayed in my vision book, in my prayers, and before my eyes. The program still wasn’t a fit, so I pursued another leadership course online and kept moving forward.

    ✨ See a man diligent in his work? He will stand before kings, not mere men. – Proverbs 22:29

    📅 2025: I put the program forward once more – and this time, it was approved! 💃💃💃

    🌟 The Journey Wasn’t Meant to Be Walked Alone 🌟

    While I had spent years preparing, nothing could have fully anticipated the intensity of the program. It challenged my thinking, tested my endurance, and pushed me beyond my comfort zone.

    💡 Success isn’t just about personal determination – it’s about the strength of the people who walk alongside you.

    I am immensely grateful for the unwavering support of my colleagues, Line Manager, COO, and mentor – leaders who encouraged me, provided guidance, and helped me navigate this journey.

    I also had the support of my children at home, whose love and patience carried me through the busiest days.

    Inside the program, I was surrounded by an incredible network of tutors and course mates, who enriched the experience, fostered collaboration, and reminded me that leadership is as much about supporting others as personal success.

    ✏️ Lessons Learned from the Journey

    ✅ Faith is preparation – Keep developing yourself while you wait.

    ✅ Persistence pays off – Growth happens when you stay committed to the vision.

    ✅ Great leadership creates great leaders – Supportive leadership makes all the difference.

    ✅ Success is never a solo journey – The right support system transforms challenges into stepping stones.

    💪 For Anyone Feeling Overwhelmed Right Now 💪

    💡 “You don’t have to see the whole staircase – just take the first step.” – Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

    One step at a time.
    One goal at a time.
    Keep adjusting, adapting, and moving forward.