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  • The Power of Persistence: My Three-Year Journey to Oxford University

    Good morning and welcome to June 2025!

    For over three years, I held onto a vision – completing the Oxford University Women’s Leadership Program. It wasn’t just a goal; it was a deep-seated desire for growth, development, and leadership excellence.

    However, timing and priorities matter. Organisational KPIs and business needs must align with development opportunities, and in the first two years, this particular program wasn’t the right fit.

    But personal growth is not dependent on a single path. Instead of waiting, I took action.

    📅 2023: I proposed the Oxford program, but it didn’t align with company priorities at the time. I sought alternatives, completing a leadership course on Udemy to keep my skills sharp.

    📅 2024: The vision stayed in my vision book, in my prayers, and before my eyes. The program still wasn’t a fit, so I pursued another leadership course online and kept moving forward.

    ✨ See a man diligent in his work? He will stand before kings, not mere men. – Proverbs 22:29

    📅 2025: I put the program forward once more – and this time, it was approved! 💃💃💃

    🌟 The Journey Wasn’t Meant to Be Walked Alone 🌟

    While I had spent years preparing, nothing could have fully anticipated the intensity of the program. It challenged my thinking, tested my endurance, and pushed me beyond my comfort zone.

    💡 Success isn’t just about personal determination – it’s about the strength of the people who walk alongside you.

    I am immensely grateful for the unwavering support of my colleagues, Line Manager, COO, and mentor – leaders who encouraged me, provided guidance, and helped me navigate this journey.

    I also had the support of my children at home, whose love and patience carried me through the busiest days.

    Inside the program, I was surrounded by an incredible network of tutors and course mates, who enriched the experience, fostered collaboration, and reminded me that leadership is as much about supporting others as personal success.

    ✏️ Lessons Learned from the Journey

    ✅ Faith is preparation – Keep developing yourself while you wait.

    ✅ Persistence pays off – Growth happens when you stay committed to the vision.

    ✅ Great leadership creates great leaders – Supportive leadership makes all the difference.

    ✅ Success is never a solo journey – The right support system transforms challenges into stepping stones.

    💪 For Anyone Feeling Overwhelmed Right Now 💪

    💡 “You don’t have to see the whole staircase – just take the first step.” – Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

    One step at a time.
    One goal at a time.
    Keep adjusting, adapting, and moving forward.

  • The Small Steps That Unlock More

    What if where you are now isn’t your place of rest?

    Last week, I shared a quote that has been resonating deeply with me: “Until you master how to handle more, you won’t be entrusted with more.”

    This simple yet profound truth is a reminder for us all. Often, we dream of bigger opportunities, greater responsibilities, and larger blessings. But the question we need to ask ourselves is, are we prepared to handle them? Growth doesn’t come from wishing for more – it comes from proving that we’re ready for it.

    Life is like a garden. Before planting seeds, we must cultivate the soil and make it ready to nurture growth. The same applies to the opportunities we desire. When we take the time to master what’s already in front of us – our daily habits, our current responsibilities, our attitudes toward challenges – we create a foundation strong enough to support more.

    I’ve learned that it’s not about perfection, but about consistency and commitment. Whether it’s managing time better, staying disciplined, or embracing patience, every step forward equips us to handle greater things with grace and purpose.

    So today, let’s focus on mastering what we have. Let’s lean into the tasks, lessons, and opportunities that are already here. As we grow stronger and wiser, we’ll find ourselves ready – and entrusted – to take on more than we ever thought possible.

    Maybe you’re in a season where you feel the same pull. Maybe comfort has kept you where you are, but deep down, you know it’s time for more. Growth isn’t found in staying still – it’s found in stepping forward, even when the path isn’t fully clear.

    Today, I encourage you: What’s one small step you can take? It doesn’t have to be big – it just has to be forward.

    💬 Share in the comments—what’s your next step toward growth?

  • The Courage to Try

    I’ve been thinking a lot about a quote that truly speaks to me: “He who fears to try will never know what he could have done.” It’s a truth that has shaped my own journey, and I hope it inspires you too. 

    There were times in my life when fear held me back. I would think, What if I fail? What if I’m not good enough? But over time, I learned something important: staying in my comfort zone didn’t bring me closer to the dreams I held in my heart. If anything, it kept me stuck, wondering what could have been. 

    Taking the first step is always the hardest. Whether it’s starting a new project, pursuing a goal, or simply saying yes to an opportunity, trying can feel scary. But I realised that every attempt, even if it didn’t go perfectly, was a step toward growth. I discovered strengths I didn’t know I had and lessons that shaped me into who I am today. 

    Maybe you’ve been holding back on something because of fear – fear of failing, fear of the unknown, or fear of what others might think. I want to encourage you to take that leap. You might stumble along the way, but you’ll never know the amazing things you can do until you try. 

    Life isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being brave enough to step forward and embrace the possibilities. So let’s not let fear steal the chance to discover what we’re truly capable of.

    Together, let’s take that leap and see where it leads. 

    The future is waiting – let’s step forward together.

  • Small Steps, Big Changes: The Daily Habit That Transforms Your Life

    It’s easy to dream big and set ambitious goals for our personal growth, career, or spiritual journey. But too often, we get stuck in the quicksand of good intentions, waiting for the “perfect” moment to act. Here’s the hard truth: intentions alone don’t create progress – action does.

    The beauty of taking a single small step every day is that it creates momentum. It transforms our goals from distant possibilities into tangible realities, one choice at a time. Want to improve your fitness? Start with a ten-minute walk. Hoping to reconnect with a loved one? Write that quick “thinking of you” message today. Want to write your first book? Write that first page. These little actions may seem insignificant in the moment, but strung together over time, they carve the path to success.

    Without action, even the clearest vision can fade into stagnation. The opportunities we let pass today may not be waiting tomorrow. Each tiny step forward pushes us closer to our potential – and it’s in the daily discipline of action that we find growth, fulfilment, and change.

    So here’s your challenge: What’s one small step you can take today, right now, to move closer to your dreams?

    Don’t wait for perfection; just start.

    Take that step – and then another tomorrow.

    Before you know it, you’ll look back and see just how far you’ve come.

    The journey is worth it. Let’s go!

  • The Gift of midwives – Delivering destiny

    This morning, as I lingered in prayer, I found myself calling God by one of His beautiful names: Baby Giver. Initially, I prayed for those longing for the blessing of children, but then the Holy Spirit nudged me gently, reminding me – I am pregnant. Not with a physical child, but with something extraordinary: destiny, purpose, and the plans and thoughts of God concerning my life.

    In that moment of reflection, the name Baby Giver resonated deeply within me. It speaks of a God who doesn’t just place dreams or visions within us – He entrusts us with His plans, His “babies,” if you will. The baby has already been given. Yet, as with any pregnancy, we cannot deliver alone. Midwives are essential, present to help us bring forth the life and legacy we’ve been entrusted with.

    Midwives: Who are they?

    Midwives are those who support, guide, and encourage us in our most vulnerable and crucial moments. They cheer us on when we falter, hold us steady when we feel weak, and remind us to push when giving up seems tempting. Midwives come in many forms: mentors, family, friends, even divine connections at just the right time. They share in the labour of love, ensuring that what God has placed inside of us comes to fruition.

    Identifying your midwives

    Who are the midwives in your life? They may be individuals who have spoken life into your dreams, offered wisdom, or stood alongside you in prayer. Often, they are the quiet encouragers, the ones who see your potential even when you don’t and believe in the beauty of what you’re carrying.

    Take a moment to reflect and identify these people. Perhaps God has placed someone in your path today to remind you that you’re not alone in your labour. Recognising your midwives is vital, as it’s a step toward gratitude and growth.

    A season of thanks

    Today, I want to honour and thank the midwives in my life—those who have helped me push through fear, doubt, and uncertainty. You’ve been the hands and voices that reminded me to keep going when the weight of my “pregnancy” felt overwhelming. You are my gifts from God, sent to ensure that the destiny I carry comes into the world safely.

    Encouragement for others

    To anyone reading this, know that you, too, have midwives. Open your heart to recognize them and allow their support to propel you forward. And remember, you may also be a midwife for someone else—don’t underestimate the power of your encouragement, prayers, or presence in someone else’s journey.

    Together, we labour, push, and deliver the extraordinary plans God has placed within us. Let’s move forward with gratitude for those who journey alongside us, and courage to embrace the destiny we’re meant to birth.

  • Fuel for the soul

    How reflection and accountability ignite the fire within.

    Last week Thursday was one of those packed days—back-to-back meetings that seemed endless. By the time work was done, all I wanted to do was sink into my duvet and let the world fade away. But I had a commitment to keep—my monthly catchup with my accountability partner. And despite the fatigue, I knew it was worth showing up. Why? Because this meeting wasn’t just another chat—it was the spark I needed to set the pace for April 2025.

    Accountability isn’t a chore or a checkbox; it’s a gift we give ourselves. Once a week, we connect over the phone. Once a month, we meet in person—sharing a light meal, a few drinks, and deeper conversations about our goals, visions, and progress. It’s not just about what’s next; it’s about celebrating how far we’ve already come and learning from the journey so far.

    Last Thursday was no different. As we reflected on the highs and lows of the first quarter, we listened, encouraged, and motivated each other. We celebrated our wins, learned from our losses, and set clear plans for the month ahead. I left that meeting energised—like the weight of the day had melted away, replaced with clarity and excitement.

    When I got home, my mind was alive with ideas. New video scripts, fresh articles, and even key points for my next book started to take shape in my head. It felt like the fire in my soul had been reignited, reminding me why I do what I do as an accountability coach and mentor.

    Here’s the truth: No matter how tired or busy you are, investing in accountability and reflection is never wasted. These moments of pause and connection are where growth happens. It’s where we reignite our passion, realign with our purpose, and find the courage to keep moving forward.

    As April unfolds, I’m ready to take on what’s next with renewed energy and a clear vision. How about you? Who holds you accountable, and how often do you pause to reflect?

    As April unfolds, I’m ready to take on what’s next with renewed energy and a clear vision. How about you? Who holds you accountable, and how often do you pause to reflect?

    Pause today and reach out to your accountability partner—or let me be your accountability coach if you don’t have one yet. Just drop me a DM.

  • Living with Purpose:
    Make Every Day Count.

    As we approach the final weeks of 2024, it’s a perfect time to reflect on the year and set our intentions for the future. The quote, “The greatest tragedy in life is not death, but life without a reason. Life without purpose,” serves as a reminder to live each day with intentionality.

    Living with purpose means more than just going through the motions. It’s about understanding what truly matters to us, setting meaningful goals, and making conscious choices that align with our values. It’s about waking up each morning with a sense of direction and ending each day with a sense of fulfilment.

    In these remaining weeks of 2024, let’s commit to living purposefully. Let’s take time to identify our goals, set clear objectives, and take actionable steps towards achieving them. Whether it’s in our professional lives, personal relationships, or community involvement, let’s strive to make a positive impact and leave a lasting legacy.

    Remember, it’s never too late to start living with purpose. Use these final weeks to reflect, recharge, and realign your actions with your true aspirations. Embrace each day with intention, and you’ll find that even the smallest steps can lead to significant change.

    Lets make every moment count and live a life full of purpose.

    Wishing you all a Happy New Week.

  • Embrace the Journey: The Power of Taking the First Step

    In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in the pursuit of big goals and impressive achievements. However, it’s important to remember that every significant journey begins with a single step.

    Remember that starting is often the most crucial part of any endeavour. By focusing on the immediate steps rather than the distant goal, we can overcome the fear that holds us back.

    With every step taken, you climb higher and as you climb higher, you will be able to see further. Each step (no matter how small) builds upon the last thereby revealing new opportunities that you could not previously see and contributes to a larger momentum that can lead to significant change or progress.

    So, let’s embrace the journey, take that first step, and trust that each effort we make will bring us closer to our goals, visions and targets.

    The journey may be long, but with persistence and a focus on progress, we can achieve remarkable things.

    Keep moving. You’ve got this.

  • Empowering Through Mentorship: Fostering Growth in 2025

    As I embark on the journey of 2025, the idea of mentorship has taken on a new significance for me. This year, I have decided to take on a mentoring course and extend my mentorship to new individuals. It feels like the perfect opportunity to give back and invest in the growth and development of those around me.

    Mentorship, for me, is not just about sharing knowledge, it’s about creating a culture of continuous learning, empowerment, and collaboration. I believe that by becoming a mentor, I can help guide others through their professional journeys, offering support as they overcome challenges, build confidence, and reach their full potential.

    I have been fortunate to be mentored by an incredible Woman in Leadership (in my career), whose guidance has profoundly impacted my career and personal growth. Her mentorship has taught me invaluable lessons about resilience, empathy, and strategic thinking. The insights and support I have gained from her have inspired me to pay it forward and become a mentor myself.

    Over the years, I have had the privilege of mentoring many young people based on my own experiences. This has been incredibly rewarding and fulfilling. However, I have set a goal to get formally trained as a mentor. I believe that this will enhance my ability to support and guide others even more effectively.

    Mentoring others is deeply fulfilling and benefits both the mentor and the mentees. It allows me to create a supportive environment where individuals can thrive and innovation can flourish.

    As a mentor, I get the chance to inspire, motivate, and lead by example. By sharing my experiences, providing guidance, and offering constructive feedback, I hope to contribute to the personal and professional growth of my mentees.

    This journey of mentorship would not only strengthen the bonds within my department but also enhance the overall success of the team. I am excited to embrace this opportunity to make a lasting impact and nurture the next generation of leaders.

    If you’re passionate about personal growth and empowering others, consider becoming a mentor too. Whether you start by sharing your own experiences or seek formal training, your contribution can make a world of difference.

    Let’s work together to create a culture of continuous learning and support. Are you ready to take the next step in your mentorship journey? Join me in making 2025 a year of growth and empowerment.

  • Overcoming Obstacles with Faith

    When my husband of 18 years and best friend of 28 years passed away, I was left with the overwhelming responsibility of raising our two young teenagers (now young adults) alone. The sorrow and uncertainty seemed insurmountable. But within that despair, I found a flicker of hope a whisper of faith that told me I could overcome this. My journey was not easy, but it was faith that anchored me through the storm.

    Faith gave me the strength to take each day as it came. It reminded me that even in the darkest times, God had a plan for me and my teenagers. As I leaned into this faith, I discovered a resilience I never knew I had. I became more determined to not only survive but to thrive.

    This newfound determination pushed me forward, igniting a passion to help, encourage and motivate others. I realised that my experiences, though painful, were not in vain. They equipped me to inspire and support others in living their best lives and fulfilling their God-given purposes.

    Through faith and perseverance, I have been able to turn obstacles into stepping stones, proving that with courage, anything is possible.

    To anyone who might be going through one challenge or another today, my encouragement to you is:

    In the face of life’s most daunting challenges, it is our faith that provides the strength to persevere and find hope in the darkest of times. Just as I discovered a renewed sense of purpose and resilience through my faith after losing my beloved husband, I encourage each of you to hold on steadfastly to your own beliefs and inner strength.

    Remember, every obstacle is an opportunity for growth, and with unwavering faith, you can overcome any adversity. Let your faith be the guiding light that leads you through, even when the path ahead seems uncertain.

    Stay strong, stay hopeful, and know that you are never alone on this journey.

    Let’s support each other through our shared experiences and triumphs. Feel free to connect with me or reach out if you need encouragement or a listening ear. Together, we can uplift and inspire one another.