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#OwnYourJourney

  • When Plans Fall Apart

    I’ve been spending time in Nigeria recently – a vibrant country full of life, but also one where systems can be… unpredictable. What I planned to resolve in a day has stretched into multiple days. Schedules shift, processes stall, and the structure I usually rely on feels out of reach.

    As someone who thrives on routine, order, and control, this has been deeply uncomfortable.

    But during my morning devotion, I paused.
    I came across a simple but powerful reminder:
    “God is more interested in my character than in my comfort.”

    That stopped me in my tracks.

    The question that followed was even more confronting:
    Can I still retain my joy and peace when things don’t go as planned?

    In this season, I’ve realised that I need strength beyond myself. Not just to get things done, but to show up in the rooms and spaces God has called me to, still representing Him with grace, peace, and purpose.

    That’s when I was reminded of this verse:

    “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
    – 2 Corinthians 12:9

    It’s not about having everything under control.
    It’s about trusting the One who does.

    So I’m learning to lean into grace.
    To let go of rigid expectations.
    To embrace the stretch, knowing it’s shaping me – not breaking me.

    If you are in a season where things feel messy, delayed, or out of sync, I want to encourage you:

    🌟 Pause.
    🌟Reflect.
    🌟Ask what this moment is building in you.

    Because sometimes, the greatest growth happens in the most uncomfortable places.

    Let’s choose character over comfort.
    Let’s choose grace over control.
    Let’s keep showing up – with joy, with peace, and with purpose.

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  • Start now. Don’t wait.

    Don’t wait for things to settle.

    Don’t wait for more time, more energy, or the perfect moment.

    Don’t wait for the promotion, the green light, or the applause.

    Start where you are.

    Move with what you’ve got.

    Because waiting doesn’t build momentum – action does.

    #StartNow #MoveWithPurpose #NoPerfectMoment #OneGoalChallenge #LeadFromWithin #FaithInAction #WorkplaceWisdom

  • To Live Your Dream: Focus on What You CAN Do

    We all have dreams. Some are loud and ambitious, others quiet and sacred. I most certainly have mine ☺️, both big and small.

    But one thing is true for all of them: they won’t come to life by accident.
    I have learnt – through ministry, mentorship, and even the occasional tech hiccup – that living your dream requires more than vision boards and prayer journals. It demands ownership. It demands responsibility.

    🎯 The shift that changed everything for me

    Years ago, I had a dream to create a resource that would encourage people daily with scripture and motivation. I saw it clearly. I even declared it. But for a while, I waited, hoping the right collaborator, the right timing, or the right “sign” would show up.

    Spoiler alert: they didn’t. Instead, what showed up was a quiet nudge from God: “What’s in your hand?”

    So I took ownership. I learned new tools. I designed the pages. I wrote the content. I asked for help when I needed it. And today, 365 Scriptural Motivations is not just a dream – it’s a reality that is blessing others. I have since published a few other books as well to be a blessing to my generation.

    🚫 Stop waiting for luck, start working with purpose.

    It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking success depends on someone else’s approval, a lucky break, or divine intervention that doesn’t require our effort.

    But scripture reminds us: 📖 “Faith without works is dead.” — James 2:26

    God partners with our movement. He honours our steps. And when we focus on what we can do – what’s in our control, we begin to see doors open that we didn’t even know existed.

    ✅ What You CAN Do Today

    🖋️ Write the vision down (even if it’s messy).
    🗣️ Speak life over it daily.
    🚶 Take one small action – send the email, sketch the idea, record the voice note.
    🪴 Sow a seed: invest time, energy, or resources toward it.
    💡 Surround yourself with accountability and encouragement.

    💬 My challenge to you today…

    What dream have you been waiting on?
    What would shift if you stopped waiting for fate and started walking in faith?

    Take responsibility… Take ownership… Stay accountable…

    Have a winning week ahead 🏆

  • From Fear to Focus – 5 mindset shifts to elevate your week

    In the fast-paced constant motion of work and life – meetings, deadlines and responsibilities, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. Whether you are leading a team, building a dream, or navigating change, clarity and courage are essential. This week, I have been reflecting on five mindset shifts that help us move from hesitation to bold action – and stay aligned with our purpose.

    1. Live Beyond Fear

    Fear may knock, but faith must answer. In leadership and in life, fear often shows up as hesitation, self-doubt, or overthinking. But fear doesn’t have to lead. When we choose courage, even in uncertainty, we unlock new possibilities. You were built to rise, not retreat.

    Choose courage today. Choose to live beyond fear.

    2. Do It Afraid

    Waiting to feel ready or brave before you act? You might wait forever. Growth often begins with discomfort.

    Growth happens outside the comfort zone.

    The key is to move forward even when fear is present.

    Your dreams are worth the risk. Pay the price… take the step.

    3. Get Clear on What You Want

    One reason people don’t get what they want? They haven’t defined it. Clarity is the first step to progress. Take time to reflect: What do you truly want? And is it aligned with your values and long-term vision?

    4. Make Your Vision Plain

    A vague goal or dream won’t carry you far – but a clear one can change everything. Whether it’s a career milestone, a personal breakthrough, or a creative pursuit – write it down. Be specific. Let clarity fuel your momentum.

    5. Keep Your Vision in View

    It’s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day and lose sight of the big picture. But your goals still matter. Keep your vision visible. Revisit it often. Your purpose is too important to be buried under busyness.

    This week, let clarity guide your decisions. Let courage shape your actions. And let your vision stay front and center. You don’t need perfect conditions to move forward – you just need a clear direction and the willingness to begin.

    Happy New Week

  • Strength in the storm

    Sometimes the miracle isn’t that the storm ends – but the fact that you are still standing in the storm.

    Before we dive in, take a moment…

    How are you doing today – really?

    In the past few months, I’ve spoken with people who are walking through situations that feel like crashing waves: grief, burnout, major transitions, or simply the quiet overwhelm of doing life every day.

    And maybe that’s you, too.

    So, pause.

    Take a breath.

    Let yourself feel what you’re feeling.

    Here is the truth I have had to hold onto in my own storms:

    God is faithful – even when the miracle doesn’t look the way we hoped.

    Sometimes it’s not the winds stopping. It’s the way God strengthens you to keep moving anyway.

    “For the Lord is good; His love lasts forever, and His faithfulness continues through all generations.” – Psalm 100:5

    That verse became my anchor. It reminded me that God doesn’t walk away when things get hard. He sees you. He stays close. And He shows up –though not always how we expect.

    So if you’re facing something heavy, know this:

    • You’re not alone.
    • God’s love hasn’t wavered.
    • You are held.

    Leave a comment or drop me a message: What are you trusting God for this week?

    Let’s carry each other through with hope, honesty, and faith.

    And if this spoke to you, pass it on. Someone else might be riding out a storm – and your words could help them hold on.

  • 🌟 Why I pay myself first – with wisdom, not just wealth 🌟

    “Making use of the mornings is like paying yourself first – in wisdom, productivity and clarity.”

    This quote has anchored my thoughts this week as I reflect on the power of intentional mornings. I am often described as a morning person, but for me, it’s more than habit – it’s a personal investment strategy.

    I recently read Miracle Morning Millionaires, by Hal Elrod and David Osborn, a recommendation from my wealth and financial coach, Sola Adesakin CPA, FCA, FCCA, MBA, CFEI and it affirmed what I have practiced for years: mornings aren’t just a launchpad for success, they are a sacred space to sow into my life.

    ✨ My morning wealth ritual

    Before emails, meetings, or obligations knock on my door, I open the door to myself – spiritually, mentally, and physically. My morning routine isn’t just a checklist; it’s a covenant of alignment:

    🙏 I pray – centering my spirit and inviting divine guidance for the day.

    📓 I journal – releasing thoughts and reflecting on gratitude .

    📖 I study the Bible – drawing wisdom and truth into my daily decisions.

    📚 I read for at least an hour – feeding my mind with new insights and perspectives.

    💬 I declare affirmations – reinforcing identity, intention, and hope.

    🎯 I review my goals and targets – keeping them alive and visible, refusing to let them become background noise.

    🧘🏽‍♀️ I exercise – honouring my body as a vessel of strength.

    🔊 I “push play” – listening to faith-building or motivational messages that sharpen my belief and fuel momentum.

    Each morning is a deposit into my spiritual account. The return? Clarity, courage, creativity – and compound interest in consistency.

    🧠 Relatable moments…

    This practice helped me navigate seasons of grief with grace, pivot through financial surprises with calm, and lead with purpose through life’s complexities. Whether it’s recording a Monday Motivation video, launching accountability coaching services, or just making a tough budget decision, that morning investment gives me what money can’t: peace before performance.

    If you are in leadership, building your brand, or simply seeking balance – mornings can be your private boardroom, gym, sanctuary and vision studio.

    📣 Your turn: How will you invest in your morning?

    I invite you to create your own “morning wealth ritual.” Start small: one prayer, one page, one push of play.

    Prioritise pouring into yourself before the world makes a withdrawal. Your future self will thank you – and so will your purpose.

    If this resonated with you, share your own morning habits or tag someone who inspires you to start strong each day. Let’s build a movement of early risers investing in legacy.

  • You Can’t Achieve Success Without Consistency

    We live in a world that glorifies quick wins and overnight success. But the truth? Real, lasting success isn’t built on flashes of brilliance – it’s built on what you do when no one’s watching. It’s in the early mornings when you choose prayer over pressure, when you write the vision down again even after the first draft didn’t gain traction, when you keep posting encouragement even when engagement is low. That’s where success begins – quietly, faithfully, consistently.

    I have learned this first-hand. Whether I’m showing up as a mentor, creating content that lifts others, or preparing a word in season for my community, the power is not in perfection – it’s in persistence. Every quote written, every video recorded, every prayer whispered over a project… it adds up. That’s consistency.

    And here’s the beautiful thing: consistency isn’t glamorous, but it is transformational. It’s the bridge between calling and fulfillment, between a vision and its manifestation. You don’t need to be perfect – you just need to be present, again and again.

    So, if you’re feeling weary in well-doing, I want to encourage you: keep going. The seeds you’re sowing now in faithfulness will bloom in due season. Success is already unfolding because you’ve chosen to keep showing up.

  • The Power of Persistence: My Three-Year Journey to Oxford University

    Good morning and welcome to June 2025!

    For over three years, I held onto a vision – completing the Oxford University Women’s Leadership Program. It wasn’t just a goal; it was a deep-seated desire for growth, development, and leadership excellence.

    However, timing and priorities matter. Organisational KPIs and business needs must align with development opportunities, and in the first two years, this particular program wasn’t the right fit.

    But personal growth is not dependent on a single path. Instead of waiting, I took action.

    📅 2023: I proposed the Oxford program, but it didn’t align with company priorities at the time. I sought alternatives, completing a leadership course on Udemy to keep my skills sharp.

    📅 2024: The vision stayed in my vision book, in my prayers, and before my eyes. The program still wasn’t a fit, so I pursued another leadership course online and kept moving forward.

    ✨ See a man diligent in his work? He will stand before kings, not mere men. – Proverbs 22:29

    📅 2025: I put the program forward once more – and this time, it was approved! 💃💃💃

    🌟 The Journey Wasn’t Meant to Be Walked Alone 🌟

    While I had spent years preparing, nothing could have fully anticipated the intensity of the program. It challenged my thinking, tested my endurance, and pushed me beyond my comfort zone.

    💡 Success isn’t just about personal determination – it’s about the strength of the people who walk alongside you.

    I am immensely grateful for the unwavering support of my colleagues, Line Manager, COO, and mentor – leaders who encouraged me, provided guidance, and helped me navigate this journey.

    I also had the support of my children at home, whose love and patience carried me through the busiest days.

    Inside the program, I was surrounded by an incredible network of tutors and course mates, who enriched the experience, fostered collaboration, and reminded me that leadership is as much about supporting others as personal success.

    ✏️ Lessons Learned from the Journey

    ✅ Faith is preparation – Keep developing yourself while you wait.

    ✅ Persistence pays off – Growth happens when you stay committed to the vision.

    ✅ Great leadership creates great leaders – Supportive leadership makes all the difference.

    ✅ Success is never a solo journey – The right support system transforms challenges into stepping stones.

    💪 For Anyone Feeling Overwhelmed Right Now 💪

    💡 “You don’t have to see the whole staircase – just take the first step.” – Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

    One step at a time.
    One goal at a time.
    Keep adjusting, adapting, and moving forward.

  • The Small Steps That Unlock More

    What if where you are now isn’t your place of rest?

    Last week, I shared a quote that has been resonating deeply with me: “Until you master how to handle more, you won’t be entrusted with more.”

    This simple yet profound truth is a reminder for us all. Often, we dream of bigger opportunities, greater responsibilities, and larger blessings. But the question we need to ask ourselves is, are we prepared to handle them? Growth doesn’t come from wishing for more – it comes from proving that we’re ready for it.

    Life is like a garden. Before planting seeds, we must cultivate the soil and make it ready to nurture growth. The same applies to the opportunities we desire. When we take the time to master what’s already in front of us – our daily habits, our current responsibilities, our attitudes toward challenges – we create a foundation strong enough to support more.

    I’ve learned that it’s not about perfection, but about consistency and commitment. Whether it’s managing time better, staying disciplined, or embracing patience, every step forward equips us to handle greater things with grace and purpose.

    So today, let’s focus on mastering what we have. Let’s lean into the tasks, lessons, and opportunities that are already here. As we grow stronger and wiser, we’ll find ourselves ready – and entrusted – to take on more than we ever thought possible.

    Maybe you’re in a season where you feel the same pull. Maybe comfort has kept you where you are, but deep down, you know it’s time for more. Growth isn’t found in staying still – it’s found in stepping forward, even when the path isn’t fully clear.

    Today, I encourage you: What’s one small step you can take? It doesn’t have to be big – it just has to be forward.

    💬 Share in the comments—what’s your next step toward growth?

  • Small Steps, Big Changes: The Daily Habit That Transforms Your Life

    It’s easy to dream big and set ambitious goals for our personal growth, career, or spiritual journey. But too often, we get stuck in the quicksand of good intentions, waiting for the “perfect” moment to act. Here’s the hard truth: intentions alone don’t create progress – action does.

    The beauty of taking a single small step every day is that it creates momentum. It transforms our goals from distant possibilities into tangible realities, one choice at a time. Want to improve your fitness? Start with a ten-minute walk. Hoping to reconnect with a loved one? Write that quick “thinking of you” message today. Want to write your first book? Write that first page. These little actions may seem insignificant in the moment, but strung together over time, they carve the path to success.

    Without action, even the clearest vision can fade into stagnation. The opportunities we let pass today may not be waiting tomorrow. Each tiny step forward pushes us closer to our potential – and it’s in the daily discipline of action that we find growth, fulfilment, and change.

    So here’s your challenge: What’s one small step you can take today, right now, to move closer to your dreams?

    Don’t wait for perfection; just start.

    Take that step – and then another tomorrow.

    Before you know it, you’ll look back and see just how far you’ve come.

    The journey is worth it. Let’s go!